As entrepreneurs and business owners, we often find ourselves trapped in cycles of self-sabotage. We dream big, set ambitious goals, but somewhere along the way, we hit a wall, not because of external obstacles, but because of the barriers we create for ourselves.

I’ve been there, and I often catch myself being there. I’ve blamed taxes, the market, even my own team for the lack of growth in my business. But the hard truth is, the biggest obstacle was me.

The Ego Trap

Our ego can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it drives us to achieve; on the other, it can blind us to our own shortcomings. Admitting that we don’t have all the answers is tough. It feels vulnerable. But acknowledging our limitations is the first step toward growth. If you’re constantly telling yourself that everything is fine when it’s not, you’re letting your ego hinder your progress.

Fear: The Silent Killer of Dreams

Fear manifests in many ways—fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of the unknown. It can paralyze us, making us stick to what’s comfortable rather than what’s necessary. I remember hesitating to implement new strategies because I was afraid they wouldn’t work. That fear cost me time and opportunities. If you’re scared, consider seeking guidance from a coach or mentor who can help you navigate through the uncertainty.

Blame Game

It’s easy to point fingers when things go wrong. Taxes are too high. The team isn’t performing. The economy is sluggish. While these factors can impact your business, fixating on them diverts attention from what you can control. If taxes are eating into your profits, revisit your pricing strategy. If your team isn’t meeting expectations, perhaps it’s time to improve your delegation skills or invest in training.

The Game of Business

Think of business as a game with established rules. These rules include market dynamics, customer behavior, financial principles, and yes, taxes. You can’t change the rules, but you can change how you play the game. Learn the rules inside out, and strategize accordingly. If you’re unsure how to proceed, don’t try to reinvent the wheel. Reach out to someone who has walked the path before you.

Ownership and Responsibility

One of the most empowering realizations I’ve had is that I am responsible for everything that happens in my business. If I don’t have enough time, it’s because I haven’t prioritized effectively. If there are problems, it’s because I’ve allowed them to persist. Taking full ownership isn’t about self-blame; it’s about recognizing the power you have to effect change.

Breaking Free

To break the cycle of self-sabotage, we must first recognize it. Be honest with yourself about the state of your business. Reflect on your actions and attitudes that may be holding you back. It’s not an easy process, but it’s a necessary one for anyone serious about growth.

3Qs to Propel You Forward

1. What is one area in your business where you’ve been placing blame externally, and how can you take ownership to change it?
2. Who can you reach out to for guidance, a mentor, coach, or peer, who has successfully overcome the challenges you’re facing?
3. What is one fear that’s been holding you back, and what actionable step can you take this week to confront it?

Remember, the journey of entrepreneurship is as much about personal growth as it is about business success. By addressing the internal barriers, we pave the way for external achievements.

Rickard