The Secrets of The Leader

The Secrets of The Leader

In many organizations, a common issue is a lack of alignment. Teams feel disconnected, staff members pull in different directions, and communication breaks down. It often feels like no one is truly on the same page. These problems aren’t just accidental, they stem from leadership. And leadership, in my experience, always comes down to values.

Leadership Starts with Daily Actions

Values aren’t just lofty words in a mission statement. They’re what leaders do every single day. Leadership is visible in the small actions: Are you approachable? Are you communicating consistently? Are you prioritizing what matters? Your habits as a leader set the tone for the entire team.

I’ve learned this the hard way. My biggest challenges as a leader have been when I failed to communicate clearly or didn’t act on issues quickly enough. These gaps sent the wrong signals to my team about what was important. Leadership trickles down, and if your actions aren’t aligned with your values, it’s impossible to expect the team to follow suit.

For larger teams, this extends to the management level. Your leadership team must not only align with the values but also live them daily. Leadership is only effective if it’s consistent across every layer of the organization.


The Vision Doesn’t Have to Be Complicated

One mistake many leaders make is overcomplicating their vision and mission. You don’t need an elaborate or abstract statement to lead effectively. Instead, focus on something clear and actionable that drives your team. A good vision gives direction, but it also needs to feel achievable.

Think of leadership like sailing across the ocean. If you’re the captain, it’s not enough to simply say, “We’re going to the other side.” Your team needs milestones: “We’ve crossed 25% of the ocean” or “We’ve passed this island, and here’s what’s next.” These progress markers give people a sense of security and purpose, showing that you’re moving forward together.


Ask What Drives Your Team

Leadership isn’t just about the vision of the organization, it’s also about understanding the motivations of each person on your team. I remember consulting with a company where I asked the management team, “Why don’t you just ask your staff what they really want in life?” They hesitated because they were scared of the answers.

But I don’t think you should fear these conversations. Asking your team what their deep goals are can uncover simple but powerful truths. Maybe someone wants to be home for dinner every night. Maybe someone dreams of traveling more or learning a new skill. Once you know these goals, you can align the company’s objectives with theirs. If there’s a mismatch, it’s better to address it early than let it fester for months or years.

When your team feels like their personal goals are connected to the organization’s vision, you create buy-in. And when you break that vision down into daily and weekly actions, you make progress tangible and motivating.


Three Questions for Reflection

  1. What values are you living out daily, and how do they align with the culture you want to create?
  2. When was the last time you asked your team members about their personal goals, and how are you helping them achieve those goals?
  3. Does your vision feel achievable and actionable to your team? What daily or weekly milestones can you use to track progress?